Sunday, September 26, 2010

Article from IPHC Magazine written By Dan Bausum and Charity Bausum Martin

            “I want to be a world changer, Mom.” Joy Bausum was fourteen years old when she said those words. She didn’t really seem like the type who would change the world in her lifetime. She was a thin little girl, shy and unassuming, quiet and kind. She liked to be at home, she liked order in her life, she dreaded change. How could such a sweet, innocent little girl become the “world changer” she wanted to be? While some may have questioned the possibility then, no one who sat at her memorial service twelve years later would doubt that she had accomplished her heart’s desire.
On August 5th, 2010, at the age of 26, Joy left the United Sates for Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. She was going to work in a refugee home for several months, and then travel to Bangladesh to serve in a school for two years. She had been in Malaysia for a little over a week when she collapsed and was taken to the hospital. She had a blood clot in her brain. Two days later, on August 18th, she went to be with the Lord.
In her life, Joy visited 20 countries and did missions work on five continents. She served in orphanages every chance she got, touching countless children overseas and in her home state of South Carolina. She sent cards and letters, too numerous to count, encouraging and edifying those she knew. She never missed an opportunity serve, even among her peers. She never backed down from a chance to share the message of Jesus with a stranger. She started out as the most introverted member of her family, but she became the most fearless of all.
Joy sought the Lord wholeheartedly from the time she was a girl. At the age of 14 she began reading her Bible and spending time in prayer daily. The Lord’s presence in her life was evident, her love for Him growing. When she was fifteen, she went to Poland and the Czech Republic with Global Expeditions. She had found her calling. She worked during the year and saved every cent so she could continue to take God’s love to other nations. She loved having a new stamp to show in her passport, and often said her goal was to fill it completely. Slowly, little by little, the shy, reserved girl melted away. One prayer, one scripture, one trip at a time, an evangelist emerged. She asked the Lord daily to use her for His glory, to prepare her to do His work, and the Lord answered her prayers. He gave her boldness, He gave her confidence, and He gave her opportunity to put them into practice.
When Joy was nineteen, she was snowed in at the Chicago airport. Knowing she would be spending the night on the cold, hard, uninviting floor should have made her a little grumpy. But instead of wasting her time wishing she were somewhere else, Joy initiated conversations with pilots, witnessing to every one of them who would listen. A few weeks before her death, she led a man to Jesus in Wal-Mart, and on her last trip to buy supplies before leaving for Malaysia, she asked her cashier if she knew Jesus as her savior. “Don’t blink” she said, “because the days go by so fast. So much love God has given us! Get out there and share it.”
Joy pursued people. She kept in touch with people from every mission trip she ever went on. She refused to lose touch with someone, even if that person wasn’t as excited about maintaining the relationship. She often said “I’m not giving up on them. God’s not giving up, and so neither am I.” She never forgot birthdays, sending homemade cards to people for many years after she had last seen them. She attended every wedding she could squeeze in amidst her travels, using the chance to reconnect and swap stories with old friends, as well as make new ones.
No matter where she was, Joy was serving. She ministered in a nursing home when she was a teenager, giving manicures and pedicures and listening to long stories of days gone by, praying for those who were sick, and smiling ‘joyfully’ at everyone. Whoever’s home she was in, she was always looking for a chance to lend a hand. If there were dishes to be washed or laundry to be folded, she was there. Helping with children gave her pleasure more than anything else, though. She was quick to play a game, go for a walk, or read a book with any child who needed attention. She was the one most likely to wrestle with a rowdy boy, or play babies with a little girl. She gave of herself unreservedly, showering the love of Christ on as many forgotten children as she could get her hands on.
“Unless a kernel of wheat is planted in the soil and dies, it remains alone, buts its death with produce many new kernels-a plentiful harvest of new lives.” (John 12:24 NLT) Joy’s life touched everyone she knew, but since her death, the story of her life has touched countless people she never met. The way that she pressed into the Lord and allowed Him to change her, the zeal with which she pursued relationships, and the ‘joyful’ way she modeled Christ’s love by serving others have been a common theme when spreading her story. She discovered her true calling, she never wavered from it, and she has become “an example to all believers.” (1 Timothy 4:12) She will be greatly missed here, but her work for the glory of her Savior will continue as the seeds she planted begin to sprout and grow.

11 comments:

  1. A beautiful way to begin this blog. I can't wait to read all the stories of Joy's love lived out. Blessings to you all, Bausums.

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  2. I agree with Renee, this is so helpful to us as a way to connect with your daughter's life, but also with you. We love you so very much and you are very dear to us. Thank you for sharing this blog with us.

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  3. What a great story, Dan & Charity. When I heard you were both writting it, I knew it would be a treasure, and it is. Love reading about Joy, she is such an inspiration and a modernday hero.
    Your whole family continues to be in my prayers daily. Love you all so much!!! -Nancy Bryan

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  4. Joy's stories and memories continue to inspire and challenge me. What an amazing Lord and Savior she lovingly served! She truly was a world changer. Thank you for keeping her close to our hearts - Jackie Davis

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  5. I just learned today of Joy's death. I am not ready (yet) to sit and write out my "Joy" story, but I want to say that today, I am treasuring (even more) the time I had with her and wanted to share that on September 7, 2010, my husband and I named our second daughter "Eden-Joy" because of the impact Joy had on my life. I had no idea she had already gone to be with Jesus!

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  6. Dan and Charity,
    I've shared with you before about how Joy's mission trips influenced my own ministry opportunities. I remember her fearlessness in the face of traveling into countries most folks can't even spell, (including Joy, when she was in a hurry, lol) I drew a strength from her willingness, and I know that strength came from primarily The Lord, but I also know that Dan and her Mom gave her the desire to serve Him. I also know that the rest of the Clan Bausum also gave her the support that made it "her reasonable service." It grieves me to know she has gone to be with her Savior, because, and hope this offends no one, but if anyone I knew would say "Lord, I haven't finished my race, send me back!" Joy would be the one!"
    God Bless all that have been touched by an amazing young woman.
    Mr. Stan

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  7. Thank you for starting this website. It's so encouraging to hear everyone's stories about Joy. As you said above, she never forgot one of my birthdays, attended my wedding, and made sure to see me when I was in NC in July. She was an amazing friend and a true inspiration. I will write more later as stories come to me. I'm so thankful I met her when she started her journey serving the Lord in Poland 1999. I will never forget that trip or that girl that I met who grew up into such an amazing, fearless, woman of God!

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  8. I am thankful for the times I had with Joy. They were not as many as I would have liked to have. But they were wonderful memories.
    I am thankful I could have shared life with a world changer. I hope her influence rubs off on me and all my family and all the people she ever knew!
    I was able to help her and Laura K. pack on one of her trips. I loved listening to her and was amazed at how brave and confident she was. She had an answer for every concern. Like the water over there and if she ever got lost and not knowing anyone, etc. She knew Jesus was with her and she knew what she needed to take care of herself. She was so amazing! Still is!
    My favorite gift last Christmas came from her. She had been in India and brought back a lovely tapestry with an Elephant a young Indian lady had made along with a picture of the lady who made it and all the other ladies who made something.
    I LOVE that and will cherish it always!
    I bless the seeds planted in this world by her life. May they ALL come to fruition!
    May all who knew her KNOW that Jesus and a life with Him is never boring! Seek Him with all your heart and love Him with all your heart! He won't fail!!!

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  9. Thank you for much for sharing Joy's story here! I know her legacy will continue to live on and touch many lives.

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  10. I never had the profound opportunity of meeting Joy but have been touched by her life and story. I came across news of her on facebook through a mutual friend. This is a beautiful tribute and I can only hope to be half the person she was. What a life she lived. What a beautiful and selfless vessel. I am so humbled by her life and story. My heart goes out to he Bausum family. Thank you for sharing this with us. I am so impacted.

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  11. I am really inspired by Joy's testimony, thank-you, and I thank god that I had the oppertunity to know Joy on this earth, in Thailand 2000 trip.

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